Building Strong and Binding Relationships....

How are good and long binding relationships built?
They are built when one does something out of the way/non-routine. Routine everybody is expected to do. One gets noticed by doing something non-routine.
Appreciations in the work situations happen only when you do something out of the way. Routine is easily forgotten. One is remembered for doing something unexpected and the deeds which bails out the other from difficult situation.
Juniors shall be loyal if you really care for them- help them develop their skills, standard of living. Help them with their problems otherwise you are another boss ‘joe apna matlub aur kaam nikal kae chalta banega. Then why should I pilofy for him.

Keep a track

Register your impulses- try digging deeper into impules which flash n pass. Why it came. How this flash can be used. Make two & two – five. Flashes when routed properly can result in enormous benefits or opportunities.

Develope......

Develop your entrepreneurial /creative/spotting skills.
Support talented people around you to grow and develop. Help them improve their living standards - by investing in them - money/ guidance/ moral support/ ideas/ references.
This way create businessmen/businesses & utilities & increase your circle of influence; gain recognition.

Short Breaks -

Daily routine makes the life very monotonous & frustrating. So one has to be alert and alive to the chances or the opportunities which are likely to provide one a refreshing break - a short stroll with the spouse, quick trip to adjoining eating joint, visit to the nearby friend etc. These quick breaks act as rechargers helping one to carry on with the routine without any burn outs.

Dress in the colours like nature does

Nature is the best source of inspiration or guide to choose what colour combinations one should use while deciding to dress up, finalise presentations, advertisements, prints etc. or whenever one is required to make a choice in colours. If you see the tree trunks they are greyish-greens, brownish blacks or blackish-greys , they set the colours of the trousers. Next imagine the colours of the tree tops. That gives idea about the colour of the shirt one is to wear. Similarly combinations of flower n leaves guide us about other possible colour combinations. So whenever in dilemma, close your eyes n recall how nature dresses up, that probably will make it easier for you to decide.

Recharge your sapped up life............

“A man is what He thinks all day long”
-Ralph Waldo Emerson
(19th Century American Philosopher)

One must try & do the things one likes. Shortages of time, lack of resources is very good reasons to avoid doing what one wants. But make an effort. Keep taking small steps that will take you nearer to your goals. As the gap comparatively reduces the targets appear more feasible. Infact when we take small steps towards what we want, we become more energized. One is not exhausted as he/she is moving towards something one desire. The efforts in the direction of what one doesn’t want or likes, but is required to make out of routine, responsibility or social pressure exhausts one much faster.
Often-daily routine and pressures take you away from what one really cherishes, loves or aspires- adding to the frustrations and sapped-up life. So doing things what one likes is like trying to add spice to ones life/routine. Something that shall charge you:

So ask yourself - What you really want to do…
o What you want to eat…
o What you want…. And then try making efforts towards it- one is more likely to feel charged and less stressed

What's the practical way out...........

Two problems for which I seek some practical solution :
1. What should one do when one is standing on the roadside or driving in an open vehicle and
somebody spits on you from a moving bus/vehicle- (very much possible on Indian Roads).
2. The occupants of the car ahead uses road as an open ash tray & you are driving behind-
cigratte ashes/ambers burn a hole or spoil your shirt.

thnks/rgds
aress